You can almost hear the resounding ‘sigh’ from martial arts instructors and athletes when someone claims that martial arts is unsafe for kids and glorifies violence. Martial arts may be portrayed by film and television (which follow there own set of rules, i.e. the rules of entertainment) that give the audience an illusion of blood, gore and broken limbs where every man and his dog is compelled to engage in stylised fighting for no reason. In reality, this is most definitely not the case.
The visual the audience gets is the combat element of martial arts. What they don’t get is the teaching, philosophy, rationale and discipline that the athlete in the class receives. There is no coincidence that martial arts is utilised by paediatricians as a vehicle for behavioural modification for children showing signs of misbehaviour, or even recommended to children diagnosed with autism. Funakoshi, the founder of Shotokan Karate in Japan encapsulated the essence of martial arts training perfectly when he said,
‘The ultimate aim of Karate lies not in the victory or defeat, but in the perfection of the character of its participants.’
To put it simply, martial arts training focuses on the process and personal development of the child, helping them develop important and respectable attributes that they can carry into their everyday lives. Themes of respect, perseverance, dedication, hard work, resilience and self control are all attributes that martial arts training fosters in their students.
Martial Artist and Sports Psychologist, Eric Stevens explains that, ‘whether your kid is too bossy, too shy, or perhaps just a little hyper, the martial arts can help your child learn many important life lessons’. The reason why martial arts are recommended for children that misbehave is due to the emphasis on focus and stillness. Even our mate Bruce Lee said,
‘Behind the punches, kicks and knees, a true martial artist learns to sit with himself and see where his weaknesses are’.
The children are encouraged to become resilient, take control of their emotions, impulses and are taught to problem solve through the vehicle of self defence, not fighting. That is the premise of martial arts training.



